The insecure mindset brings judgment into all relationships.

Beyond right-doing & wrong-doing is a field -- I will meet You there.  RUMI

Although the default mode of the mind tends to turn everything into a problem, we are not bound to dwell there, creating suffering for ourselves & others.  What if our true birthright is to be joyful, viewing all life forms, including ourselves, as Divine beings, created in the image of God???

In this field all existence, all experience brings forth never-ending gratitude.